Love is One Thing, Marriage is Another Thing!

“Love is One Thing, Marriage is Another Thing!”
Everyone places different value on different things. The moment you fall in love, you don’t care about things like the person’s appearance or educational background or financial status. In fact, the more differences you find between you and that person, the more attractive he or she seems. The more obstacles you face, the stronger your passion becomes. However, not all the couples in love end up getting married. In a sense, marrying someone is much more complicated since it sometimes requires more than just love between the two people. Do we expect different qualities from a person we go with “just for fun” and the person we go out with to marry? Yes, we do. Love CAN’T conquer everything.

“I Love You, but I’ll Marry Her!”
Love comes without warning. You might meet someone who steals your heart in the most unexpected place and on the most unexpected occasion. If the feeling is mutual, you want to believe that you’re meant to be with each other. At that very moment, at least… However, how many of you would still consider marrying that person when you later find out that he or she doesn’t have any education, or a decent family or a job?

“Honesty Isn’t Always the Best Policy?”
When you break up with someone, how honest are you about the reason that you want to leave?
‘Her family is so poor. I don’t want to support them…’
Or how honest can you be about the reason that you want to marry that person?
‘You’re not the most attractive man I’ve met. But I love what you possess. You can help me change my life.’
Sometimes, you can see clearly why he or she wants to leave you or marry you.
However, you don’t always want to admit the truth. You’d rather hear some beautiful lies about the reason why he or she wants to leave you or have you.

“Is Everyone Equal Before Love?”
Our expectations about love and marriage differ. However, tragedy occurs because we don’t always love the person that we find it possible to spend the rest of our life together.